Why do children financially abuse their parents?

There is no single explanation for why children financially abuse their parents. Often, multiple factors intersect:

  1. Entitlement and dependency: Some adult children come to view their parents’ resources as extensions of their own, particularly if boundaries were unclear earlier in life.
  2. Addiction or mental health struggles: Substance use disorders, gambling, or untreated mental illness can drive desperate or manipulative behaviour around money.
  3. Economic pressure: In an era of rising housing costs, student debt, and job insecurity, some adult children feel trapped and lash out at the nearest safety net, being their parents.
  4. Reversed caregiving roles: As parents age, physical or cognitive decline may make them more vulnerable, especially if they rely on their children for daily support.
  5. Family silence: Many parents were raised to believe that family problems should stay private, making them less likely to seek help or set firm limits.

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